Why men use their money to attract a partner ? Why are they promoting the goldigging lifestyle ? Please readon
Question by THINKING BIG: Why men use their money to attract a partner ? Why are they promoting the goldigging lifestyle ? Please readon
Got game ? Most men sure dont . Millionares, celebrities, and especially (music artist flaunt and talk about how much money they have, the cost this & how they’ll take you here, and buy u this ,and then wonder why women get with them for there money…. its like there supporting the goldigger lifestyle, its ludacris and it’s a bad look for women and men, what do you think ? I think they do it because they dont have that talk game( Dont know how to talk to women) and/or they have boring uninteresting personalities, what do u think ? Some instance is true but if flash ya money to get women(whether your spending it on u to look flashy or her) your losing money, if you got game your getting women and saving money(Also more chances to have a sucessful relationship). Men need to set up get smart, be confident, relax and have fun(not like that) with women. Spend cash to hide ya personality isnt going to work most women see through it, greedy women will take advantage. What do you think ?
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Answer by Miss Theo
I’d date a hobo if he was a handsome and gentlemanly.
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Well anyone thats famous obviously cares more about image than anything else. They don’t want real love. They want to make themselves look better. Actually, capitalists in general care more about their appearance than petty things like real love (Pssht, like that’s profitable). I’m assuming that’s why.
Women go for a richer man, because a man with more money will be more able to provide for, and support, her and her children. It’s called survival of the fittest.
It’s not necessary for a man to be rich, or to empty his bank account for you. But women do want a man to be financially stable, be able to take care of himself, and yes, to be able to take her out and buy her flowers n things like that. Hey, if he can make you feel happy/good/well cared for without a dime of extra spending money (beyond taking care of his responsibilites) there’s ways to do that too. And that’s WAY more impressive than what money can buy.
Having cash is awesome. Using cash to get a date is pathetic. Your partner’s first concern should be you, not the lifestyle that accompanies you. Attracting a girl with money is basically admitting that you don’t offer anything more than what an ATM machine can provide.
I had a date once who I had to break up with because he thought I would have sex with him if he bought me things. I think that #1 men need to beg scientist to find a way to make them less horny and #2 stop thinking women are just like them Into sex and money only #3 stop flaunting money to get sex it is childish and dangerous. Just ask men with Stds, and unwanted children Ex. pro athletes
My opinion is that all the men out there that dislike non feminine women need to go after these women last I checked it is considered masculine to like money (things) and sex
Female gold diggers have it hard during a recession.
Think back. Way back to our ancestors of about one hundred thousand years ago. The male with the most meat, the strongest body, the cunning mind with the food, and the furs were the ones the women went to because they would find a man who can support her family. A man who can feed her kids, and can protect her kids.
She on the other hand would give him what he wanted. If she wanted to keep her family alive she would. He on the other hand would give her what she wanted, if he wanted to keep her he would.
The male went looking for the looker because it was the best chance he would have at having a son. The best looking were the best suited for reproduction and the man would want that to be his. For his own progeny.
The woman who is going after the richest man is the woman who is looking for the best seed for her to bear children with. She is making damn sure her kids are going to get the shelter, food, clothing, education, and life that is good for them, as well as the best that she can get.
Gold digger? I don’t know about that but … if you think the woman is looking for the best for her offspring. You’re damn right. The stinking rich have that.
The rich man gets the female he wants? You’re damn right! It has been like this for more than a hundred millenniums and we are not going to be changing it anytime at all. It is virtually bred into the male and female genes for survival of the race.
We have the an instinctual need to procreate with the best chance of success. That stands true twenty thousand years ago and it still stands true.
Men have always had to prove in some way that they can provide for a woman; even after their death; take money as a symbol for this provision. Having money is not bad; it never was bad. The bad part is how that money is used. Keep in mind what you said spending cash to hide your personality isn’t going to work; let me put this with it; a good woman; no matter how much money the guy may carry; respects that money. Wheras; a greedy woman will keep wanting more and more.
I wouldn’t touch a golddigger with a ten foot pole. I think the reason a lot of guys use their wealth to attract these women is because they see it as the “easy way” to get laid. However in this day and age he would be a fool to actually think she wouldn’t be in it for his money.
But I agree, by doing this they are encouraging golddiggers to continue their golddiggin ways.
Money is a NO NO for attractiveness…..I so go for the heart before the green…Gold diggers are so stupid….OMG a True woman is with a man Before the gold/green and then builds up to the Mills…Not Knowing the man while hes broke and feeding him rejection then Seeing his financial blessing and drooling at the mouth….Real Women are the Best Women!
I completely agree. I’ve seen one guy talk about how easy it is to use money to hook women, then complain when that’s all the woman ends up caring about.
I don’t think so.
It depends on the nature of the relationship.
If you’ve already gotten to know each other
and she already knows that you don’t have
a personality and your boring but still likes
you any way I think that it’s only right to try to
at least compensate for your lack to show her
that your intrested and want to have fun(like that)
but also want more.
The guys that usually do know how to talk to a woman
are the ones that woman should take caution with
(talkin condoms and emotional)
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